Stephen covey's ideal talks may ascend the sensibility of a human but they cannot become principles. Habits get moving by practicing continuously. when assiduously we do the same, we are exasperated and we have to keep pending the projects related to work to shape up our life project!
Win/Win is the first ambiguity in the life, when it does not seem to fit at all circumstances. It is defensive. People will play win/loose with us and us a win/win. Therefore, assault is
irrelevant.
Start with the end in the mind and then get frustrated, that we reached only half of our path in the constraint of time and conditions. If not so, then you are doing a crime by thinking low.
Synergy did not work with me when my roommates played music every day at my working hours!
Seek first to understand and then to understood: - I was discussing with my sister about her academic problems and I shifted my paradigm, felt her pain, and realized very abysmally the problems she faced and did not give her a solution! I was flown in the cyclone of troubles, she was facing. Therefore, people, the fifteen minutes break I got from the work was over in the realization process! She must be thanking me from the heart, for what a brother I am who felt her deeply, but did not return a solution value!
Put first thing first And Proactive: Prima facie, these two seemed practical. However, practicing these habits need your lifetime guts! I am writing this blog, I know very nicely about the pending work I have to finish by 12'o clock. Although, I am more than half-empty in my energy level. Proactive is wonderful until a maximum of one week. Where will you get the energy to continue it? Your life will get preoccupied with handling projects finishing half year after. As if, we are a powerhouse of energy.
Hence, one is not able to complete Shiv Khera's 21 days practice rule to make one's action a habit. Maximum a week or two, you are back awake from the beautiful dream to the ugly reality.
The unrealistic teachings, ad-films etc are the source of depression to human being. They show beauty that is just a mirage. They show plasma TV to a middle class family and the man of house sweeps his tears secretly, admitting he was not able to advance with the technology to give his child 'the best of his time'.
Sharpen the saw: - first let me built one!
Review once more the seven habits of highly effective people.
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